Hi Dennis and welcome to the forum,
The relays are readily available but I don't believe the connector is available as a separate item! you will have to either cut one out of a breaker or clean the old one up. Pin 6 is the live feed to the pump by the way 
Oz Cooper
Classic Mini Product Manager UK
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